BY J.M.LEE
In the sea of life, our thirties often become the compass that guides us through the stormy waters of adulthood. It’s the time for growth and self-discovery. And who better to navigate this journey than Phalak Betab. The Marketing, Communications, and Fundraising Officer at PICS Society is the ingenious mind behind “Stranger Story,” a global Video Podcast Series that delves into the enigmatic tales of strangers.
Phalak has honed her craft not only in the boardrooms but also in the corridors of life.
Here, she shares her ten insightful lessons learned during her adventurous voyage through the third decade:
1. Karma, Baby: “If you do good, the good will return to you.” Phalak’s mantra echoes the universal truth that kindness is the currency of the cosmos.
2. Shine Brighter: “If someone badmouths you, God will give you more reasons to shine.” In a world where negativity thrives, Phalak reminds us that our brilliance outshines the darkest clouds.
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3. The Wisdom of Time: “Time heals and reveals everything.” With a knowing smile, Phalak acknowledges that patience is a virtue and a sage counselor in life’s journey.
4. Sacrifice for Success: “Success results from sacrifices.” Phalak’s nod to the old adage reminds us that behind every triumph lies a tapestry of dedication and perseverance.
5. Lobbying for Good: “If they lobby against you, remember that you are doing something good.” In a world fraught with dissent, Phalak spearheads the courage to stand firm in our convictions.
6. Wealth in Health: “Your health is your biggest wealth.” With simplicity, Phalak underscores the profound significance of cherishing our well-being above all else.
7. Familial Bonds: “Found relations can be thicker than blood relations.” Drawing from her own experiences, Phalak celebrates the serendipitous connections that often become our pillars of strength.
8. Manifest Your Destiny: “Manifestation is the key.” With a twinkle in her eye, Phalak reminds us that our thoughts wield the power to shape our reality.
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9. Nurture Relationships: “Your relationships need to be nurtured like a baby.” In a world of fleeting connections, Phalak advocates for the tender care and cultivation of meaningful bonds.
10. Boundaries and Kindness: “Set boundaries and remember—there are unkind people in the world. Don’t be nice to everyone.” Phalak imparts the wisdom of discernment with a sage nod, urging us to tread cautiously while embracing the warmth of genuine kindness.
Summing up, as we navigate the unpredictable waters of our thirties, let us heed the witty wisdom of Phalak Betab, a storyteller, marketer extraordinaire, and sage guide through the maze of life. With her ten lessons as our North Star, we embark on a journey filled with laughter, learning, and the unwavering belief that the best is yet to come.
If you also have lessons, mantras, and advice you would like to share on the video podcast “Stranger Story” in collaboration with PICS Society, check out www.strangerstory.ca and connect with Phalak.