A Glimpse of happy married life

A GlimpseWhen you get married, the most important thing is “How to make your relationship stronger with your life partner. When two people live together, many troubling things may happen in their life which they have to face and find appropriate solutions. Following are a few easy tips for maintaining a healthier relationship with your life partner:

If your goal is to have a satisfying marriage with longevity, make sure you are accountable for the part you play in the relationship—good or bad. When you take responsibility for your part in the marriage, only then will you be able to connect with your partner in a mature and intimate way. “Unless you’re willing to make your relationship a higher priority than other relationships and activities, you won’t have a growing marriage.

Be on your best behavior. This will rub off on you and will reciprocates. It works! A good marriage is made up of a thousand small kindnesses.
Discuss the issues which are making your life difficult. Sit together and talk about what can be done to improve and settle the situation, and never close the door of communication with your loved one. Learn how to agree to disagree. No two people agree on everything, and that’s okay, but it’s important to be okay with each other’s differences.
Honesty is the main aspect of your life. So, always be honest with your partner and share everything with them.
Trust your partner and ask them for putting trust in you. And also listen to them with attention, so that they may feel comfortable with you.
Compromise is indispensable for a marriage life as it plays a significant role for the long term continuity of your relations. Because the partners may not be having the same habits, and thoughts, etc. so they have to compromise on certain matters.
Accept even the disagreeable opinions of your spouse. It is not necessary that you should always agree with their opinion but just satisfy them to make the relationship stronger.
Compliments and thank-yous are heartfelt and specific. Compliment each other, thank him for helping around the house. Make eye contact when you smile or deliver a compliment. Appreciating something about each other.

 “The ego is our mental powers turned against ourselves.” Does the ego help or hurt us? If people did not have egos, the world would be a peaceful place. We let our ego take over because we have insecurities and fears. We imagine or interpret something in a negative way and we lash out to show that we are not afraid or hurt when we really are. The ego have a great way of keeping you in the past which makes you not live for the present; you just wasted the day by reliving the past and how you will make that person pay for hurting you. The ego does  not want you to move forward so you cannot experience personal growth in your life.
We have the power to ignore our ego by believing the truth about ourselves. We are wonderful people with lots of love within us to share. We should allow “love” to guide us and not our ego.
Financial problems lead to divorce. Don’t make your relationship to deteriorate over something as inconsequential as money.
“Never discuss sensitive subjects when hungry or tired. Use Good Communication Skills to Resolve Hot Issues. It’s common for each person to come into a relationship with certain expectations about how things will be. But without the ability to communicate and negotiate, these issues become sources for power struggles that almost always damage the relationship.
“Technology is really blurring the lines between home and work,” Heavy use of cell phones and devices can mute your happiness and dial up stress in your home.
Happily married couples enrich their relationship by sharing meaningful experiences with each other. The ultimate in meaning is to share a common philosophy of life and life purpose.
Prioritize their relationship after marriage. Make your relationship a priority. You need to be able to say ‘My spouse comes first.’ This is your anchor relationship. If you establish this now, it will be easier to hold on to when life becomes more complicated later in your marriage.”
Encouraging your partner is one of the most important things you can do for your relationship.
Be best friends. You really have to like each other to last. “Laugh together.”